Online Group: Gay Men, Drugs and Intimacy

For many gay, bi and queer men, sex, intimacy and drugs can become tangled together. Sometimes that brings connection and pleasure, and sometimes shame, loneliness or a sense that things have stopped feeling good. It can be hard to talk about honestly, even with friends.

This small online group brings together up to 10 gay, bi and queer men to talk openly about their experiences with chemsex, drug use and intimacy. Each week we’ll explore what drugs give you and what they take, share ways of coping and staying safer, and look at what you want from sex, relationships and connection. There’s no judgement and no pressure to stop. The group works from a harm-reduction approach, alongside men who know what it’s like from the inside.

The group starts in December 2026 and meets online for 90 minutes once a week over 6 weeks, with the option to continue if the group would like to.

I want the group to be open to everyone, so you contribute whatever feels comfortable for you financially.

If you’d like to join or have questions, book a free 20-minute call. If you need medical or specialist addiction support, I’ll help you find it.